Bouncing back after emotional upheavals and falls as an entrepreneur

(Copyright © 2015 by Chesney Bradshaw, all rights reserved)
(Copyright © 2015 by Chesney Bradshaw, all rights reserved)

Some time back after leaving for home after dark I stopped at a traffic light and my passenger front window was smashed and my two cellphones were stolen from my car. It all happened in a flash. I heard the loud bang against the window, the crashing glass and looked up but I didn’t even have a chance to see the criminal’s face. I drove home with glass splinters in my hand and back and when I got out the car I could hardly stand my legs were so weak. Continue reading “Bouncing back after emotional upheavals and falls as an entrepreneur”

Do you have the courage to give it another shot?

IMG_3157How have you handled personal crises in your life? Have you started something new but given up too soon? Can you think of people you’ve known who have given something just one more try and made it work?

Even people who have reached the top of the ladder in their fields have been plagued by doubt. Shortly after Ray Kroc signed the contract with the McDonald’s brothers he wasn’t quite sure what he had taken on but he was eager to go into action. “I was 52 years old. I had diabetes and incipient arthritis. I had lost my gallbladder and most of my thyroid gland in earlier campaigns. But I was convinced that the best was ahead of me.” Continue reading “Do you have the courage to give it another shot?”

You may be at your lowest, but you’re not alone

Olive oil from Imperia in Liguria, Italy.
Olive oil from Imperia in Liguria, Italy. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Colonel Sanders failed at a number of careers. For over 20 years he had been cooking chicken in his restaurant-come-hotel when a new interstate roadway bypassed his town. It took away all of his business. Saunders was broke.

“I made a resolve then that I was going to amount to something if I could. And no hours, no amount of labour, no amount of money would deter me from giving the best that there was in me. And I have done that ever since, and I win by it.”

Saunders started travelling and eventually found a way to make money through franchising his fried chicken recipe. Within five years Kentucky Fried Chicken had 400 stores.

I remember once when the only work I could find was delivering cooking oil to fish and chip fryers from the back of a bakkie (small truck). At first it was humiliating work. But at the time I didn’t have any other options. I had to make it work. Selling cooking oil to the general trade is a tough business, especially when your product isn’t the lowest priced.
Slowly, after making repeated visits to fish and chip and chicken fryer outlets I made a personal breakthrough. One owner bought ten 20 litre cooking oil drums from me. It lifted my spirits. I finished the day excited and ready to keep on selling the next day and beyond.

In that dark tunnel where you see no light for what seems an eternity, it’s hard to hold on to your sanity. It’s tough to keep going. But you’ve just got to knuckle down and carry on with hope that you will eventually see the light.

A tornado hit the small town of Vilonia in Arkansas some time ago. One of the small business owners lost all his tools and his construction equipment. He lost two houses in an area where 38 houses were downed. He had bought them all. Now like other small business owners he is trying to get help.

Some of the small businesses devastated in the tornado had no insurance, others were paid out insurance but it didn’t cover everything they had in their business. Small businesses were turned down by the federal emergency management agency. But they are trying and applying again.

The mayor is encouraging businesses to stay in the town and reopen. Some have already planned to reopen their businesses in June. One woman who lost almost everything said she had learnt that it was important to “just keep looking forward”.

Col Saunders was able to find “the best that there was in me”. The human will to survive is strong when you dig in and find it. If you are just starting out, you may not know if you’ve got it. If you’re an experienced professional out on the streets, you could believe you will never make it. But if you keep on keeping on your resilience will get you to the other side.

Looking back, it took me more than three years to get back on my feet at one stage in my life but I made it. No matter what your circumstances are find the best in you and keep moving forward.

No matter how bad things get in your business, you can always talk to someone for help

Film poster for Deep Water - Copyright 2006, I...
Film poster for Deep Water – Copyright 2006, IFC Films (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

If you’re over your head, ask someone for help.

Why is it that small business owners facing some crisis in their business or even insolvency do something dangerous to their health?

I remember a small publisher ran into financial difficulties and put a gun to his head… and pulled the trigger.

Mick Jaggers’girlfriend L’Wren Scott was found hanging in her New York apartment. It emerged that her fashion company was millions of pounds in debt.

Only a psychologist will probably be able to give an opinion on what really drove someone like her to take her life. Or can they? Sometimes these deep issues and their root causes even ellude top psychologists. Continue reading “No matter how bad things get in your business, you can always talk to someone for help”