Rough Times Bring Back Older Values

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A wave forms far out, gathers itself, rushes towards the sandy beach, curls, and rumbles into shore. It’s wonderful watching waves. They’re beautiful — each one different, each one with a short, fleeting lifespan. They remind us of the shortness of everything: a moment, a day, a week, a month, a year… our lives.

We were all getting ready for Christmas this time last year, and suddenly we’re doing it again. Where did all the time go? How time flies.

What will you enjoy over this relaxing period?

Down at the Braamfontein Spruit in Randburg, people will be enjoying a lovely lunch in the Highveld sun — unless, of course, it’s one of those rainy, stormy Highveld summer days that come out of nowhere.

Talking about enjoyment, I see people want to unwind more and avoid being reminded of how tough the year has been, especially with the economic strain most households are feeling. A BBC article noted how advertisers are leaning into this — showing viewers themselves, but not in overly fanciful ways.

I also see Dame Helen Mirren saying she would love to have her late mother’s old sewing machine repaired — a small but heartfelt wish she shared on The Repair Shop ahead of its Christmas special.

One of the things I love to see at this time of year is the generosity of spirit people show. It reminds me of an older time when people were honest, when neighbourliness and community spirit were real — not manufactured in workshops sponsored by local governments and consultants.

A few decades back, when a carvery meal at the Park Lane was under ten rand, we still had that sense of community in Hillbrow. And now, interestingly, the UK is seeing something similar again with the rise of honesty boxes.

Across rural regions — North Yorkshire, Shropshire and others — honesty boxes are becoming more popular. They rely entirely on the honour system: you take the farm eggs or fresh produce or baked goods, and you leave the correct amount of money. Simple as that. Some pub owners see them as a sign that community values are quietly strengthening again.

Australia has been doing this for years, of course — roadside stalls with fruit, vegetables, and handmade goods, all paid for by trust. No cameras. No fuss. Just goodwill.

Before we know it, this time — this special time of the year — will be over again. Enjoy it while we have it.