What to do when everything seems to be going wrong

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Water – essential to urban living

I’ve just experienced 20 hours of no water at my home. It is cause great difficulties. The most pressing issue was needing water for high-pressure hosing of the roof. The roof cleaning and painting is something that I planned already two months ago and the contractor could only come now in late autumn to do the roof. The biggest issue at the moment is the weather because some days here in the Western Cape or rainy and damp so choosing the week when they still sunshine available, is critical. Not having water for the pressure hosing is a big problem.

?The morning started out overcast, A real downer because as I’ve said ?it’s important to have sun to dry the roof in preparation of the painting.

Domestically, the difficulties were preparing food, making beverages, personal hygiene and keeping the toilet flushed with water.

How do you stop catastrophizing when everything goes wrong? When something like water is not available for an extended period, everything seems out of balance and you start to catastrophize.

What is catastrophizing?

Catastrophizing is when you anticipate the worst possible outcome in a situation and dwell on it excessively. To stop catastrophizing, try to challenge negative thoughts, focus on what you can control, and practice mindfulness or relaxation techniques to stay grounded in the present moment. Recognizing that catastrophizing is a cognitive distortion can also help you gain perspective.

The Internet is full of tips and suggestions when you have no water or electricity and when things go wrong. So if you need any practical tips, you can do an internet search. One of the things that I didn’t have while there was no water was simple wet wipes. So I’ve gone and stocked up on them. It’s the simple things that make life easier when things are going wrong.

When everything seems to go wrong, it’s important to take a step back and prioritize. Here are some practical steps you can take:

  1. Stay Calm: Try to remain calm and composed. Panicking can make the situation feel even more overwhelming.
  2. Assess the Situation: Take stock of what exactly is going wrong and assess the extent of the problem.
  3. Focus on Solutions: Instead of dwelling on the problem, focus on finding solutions. Break down the issue into smaller, manageable tasks.
  4. Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or professionals for support and advice. Sometimes, an outside perspective can offer valuable insights.
  5. Take Care of Basic Needs: Prioritize basic needs like food, water, and shelter. Ensure you have access to essential supplies and resources.
  6. Stay Flexible: Be willing to adapt and change your plans as needed. Flexibility can help you navigate unexpected challenges more effectively.
  7. Practice Self-Care: Take care of your physical and emotional well-being. Get enough rest, eat nutritious meals, and engage in activities that help you relax and recharge.
  8. Stay Positive: Maintain a positive outlook and focus on what you can control. Remember that setbacks are temporary, and you have the resilience to overcome them.

By taking these practical steps, you can navigate through challenging times with more resilience and confidence.

I think from every electricity outage and water cut off one get better at preparing yourself because you learn a lot while things are going wrong. This doesn’t mean that you will always be fully prepared. I did have some water available for beverages and washing hands but I needed a lot more for the cistern and bathing in the wash basin.

? Now I’m just hoping that the sunny weather will remain for the next three days so that the roof can be completed.?

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